Choose an Image/Develope and Guard your Reputation.
I touched on this in a previous essay, and most cats often overlook this important step. You should make yourself stand out from the crowd, you should develop a steady and consistent image that people can see and hold on too. Your image shouldn’t be fake, it should reflect the realest part of you. Remember if your gonna be dealing with woman, it’s important to be as REAL as possible. Woman can see through a fake nicca a mile away.
When ever your on the scene always try and have something that seperates you from the average hard leg Nicca. Have a quality or an attribute that most Niccas don’t have. And once you find that one thing that you think the females are drawn too, cultivate, master and hone it into a razor sharp edge to make your game deadly.
As I stated before in a previous essay, I chose the “Nice Guy” or “Big Brother” type image or approach. This image didn’t take any effort to cultivate or develop because it was ME to begin with. I looked in the Mirror one day and had to seriously ask myself some questions. I said if I was a female would I look at myself as a sexy fine muthafukka that made my pussy wet? Would I want to fuck me if I seen myself in a club? The answers had to be real and bullshyt free in order to get this Mack Shyt workin right. I concluded that I wasn’t very sexy physically. I didn’t have alot of charisma and animal magnetism to initially attract and keep the ladies interested. I knew that out of all the females I have boned it was always after I had established a friendship and trust was created. I had never had a one night stand. I seen that I always did the most damage when I was allowed to spend time with a female and let her get a taste of this school boy charm. I knew that I was a slow worker and always needed time to accomplish the goal of conquering the female mind. Part of this reason was because the woman didn’t know who I was, she had nothing to go on. She had no information on what made me tick. She was forced to start with a blank sheet of paper. And this always made things slow for me.
But if you have a WELL ESTABLISHED REPUTATION, your work becomes much easier and you work much faster. Your Image and your Reputation are the foundation of your work. If your a fine, sexy ginuine type Nicca that gets pussy thrown at you within seconds of meeting a female, then you can skip the Nice Guy shyt. If your known for knockn a bytch upside the head or just known in the hood for kickn muthafukkaz asses at the drop of a hat, then the Nice Guy routine ain’t really necessay. Macks can get the same effect with differant types of images. The casanova Mack get’s his manipulation power with his stunning good looks, not to much game playin is necessary to get what he wants. The Gorilla Pimp gets what he wants through shear intimidation.
My Reputation precedes me everywhere I go and does all the work for me. I don’t have to say shyt to anyone about anything now-a-days. If I’m somewhere in the projects I often get females to come at me and holla about gett’n on my time. I turn alot away due to most of em don’t have I.D and some are just to fucked up on the physical tip. But they often know my reputation for being fair and compassionate. They know I often help them out when no one else will. They know that if they are are on their last leg, I step in to support them so that they don’t crash and burn. They all know about the money I gave this girl or that girl. They all know about the electric bill I paid or the car ride a gave to such and such to her job interview. The great thing about this is that you may do things for a female but by the time your deed gets back to you, it has been exaggerated and blown up one million times. If you gave a broad 50 dollaz to pay a phone bill, the next time you hear about your deed through other people, that 50 dollaz has turned into 200 dollaz. If you gave a female a ride to the grocery store that story somehow gets twisted and now the story is that you gave her a ride and bought all her food. Bottom line is these females are going to naturally Lie and hype up the shyt you do for them to make them look good in front of their friends. They have to justify the reason why they do what they do for me on video. So they will blow all kinds of shyt out of proportion that I do for them to look like they are livin the good life through me. You know your rep has been established when people speak of you often and your not in their presence. I often here about what this or that female said about me on a particular day. My Reputation is based upon Generosity and Honesty and I make sure that no one tries to destroy or taint that.
If you want an image that the females really dig then it’s always a must to have good hygiene. ALWAYS BE FUCK’N CLEAN!!! ALWAYS HAVE YOUR CAR CLEAN INSIDE AND OUT!!! Everything about you has to scream order and security. A dirty Nicca with a Dirty Ride only tells a female that “This Nicca is lazy and he can’t take care of himself or his own shyt, how is he gonna take care of or help me?” Never be seen too often, when you step on the scene stay just long enough to take care of business and then break out and leave without even seeing bye. This is some Batman/Bruce Wayne or Superman/Clark Kent shyt. Doing this builds mystery and intrigue. Avoid becoming common or too accessible. You wanna be like Gold, rare and hard to find. Let them otha Niccaz be all in a females face 24/7. When the end of the day comes and they are about to lay down in their beds, the ladies will be thinking about you, not the Nicca that’s in her face all day. Just think about anything in your life that you ever wanted real bad. The only reason you ever want something is because YOU DON’T HAVE IT! So you have to use that same principle when dealing with your image. Don’t allow the female to possess you or figure you out. Once she feels that she has solved the mystery of who you are and what your about, your hold over her will disappear.
A distinct and identifiable image will take you a long way fast. I don’t dress fancy I pull up in a sweat top and sweat bottoms, or some basketball shorts. I wear mostly Black and Grey. My gym shoes are always white and clean and I wear a long silver necklace. My car is always clean and it always smells good when they get in. When ever she leaves you to go back to her environment she has to notice the transition. When she is with me she has money, food, her environment smells good, things are clean and she feels excited and secure. When she leaves she must feel the opposite. If your reputation is well established and your image is strong, you will have to do little work. Your reputation and Image will do it for you. The reputation and image is given life by other people. And as funny as its sounds the less people see of you and the less your around once the reputation has taken root, the stronger it becomes. If your around the people you wish to astound with your reputation all day, it will become weak and fizzle. Just think about the scariest movie you ever seen in your life. Was it the movie that showed the killer in the first 2 minutes of the movie? Or was it the movie that never showed the killer and you were forced to conjure up an image of the killer in your mind? Well it’s the same concept with your reputation and image. You let other people fill in the blanks, don’t volunteer any information let them do all the work in their head. They will do a better job to hype you up more than you ever could.
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In my previous “How to get pussy” essay we talked about spitt’n game or how to have a female take notice of you just by your conversation. I can’t stress how important it is for you fellaz to pay attention to the appeal of words and conversation for woman. A woman’s mind is geared to absorb and words like oxygen. A woman’s whole essence thrives and craves good conversation. If you can become a man with a good mouth piece you have this battle 75% won.
But in this part 2 essay we wanna discuss what to do to KEEP the pussy or intrigue the pussy. If there is one ultimate lesson that I have learned in my travels in the projects, if there is one universal truth in dealing with the Project chick, that truth would be this. NICE GUYS FINISH LAST. These females don’t give a fuck about a sensitive man. They can’t respect a man who believes in a 50/50 relationship. The quickest way to make a P.C lose interest in you, is to expose yourself to be a nice, sensitive and respectful guy. They don’t see these attributes as assets. They see them as liabilities. Their whole life and environment has trained them to respect and admire rough, rugged and raw type Niccaz. Now you comin in and wanna play Mr.Rogers? No, No playa you can’t be Mr. Rogers, you gonna have to be more like Mr.T.
The female mind is always looking for that which makes her feel like a woman. How does a woman know herself, or know that she is a woman? She can only know this through a contrast in what she sees outside of herself. She has to have something to compare herself to in order to make sure that her womanly feelings and needs are met. It’s really basic playaz, so follow my line of reasoning. In the Project Chick’s world things are real simple. Men are supposed to be Tough, woman are supposed to be less tough. Men are supposed to run shyt, woman are not. In short in order to appeal to most woman no matter what their economic level but especially the project chick, all you have to do is be more of a man than the woman is. hahhaha. I know that sounds funny, but that’s real. I know females who have men that they can run into the ground. I know woman who punk their men and tell there man what to do. These woman constantly play on and disrespect these men for one reason. They are actually hoping that one day the Nicca will grow some balls and put her ass in check.
A woman don’t want a man she can run. A woman can’t settle down with a Nicca that has more pussy between his legs than she does. To do that would rob her of her woman hood. Like I said previously up above, a woman wants to FEEL like a woman. How she gonna feel like a woman with a Nicca in front of her who is wearing a skirt instead of the gawd damn pants. The only way her pussy will get wet and her womanly needs met is if she has a man in front of her, that is a MAN. A Man to these chicks is a brotha who don’t give a fuck about their feelings. He don’t let no woman run or dictate shyt. He cannot be controlled or played. He has to be in Power and the one holding all the cards. The minute you give a female power over you, you will lose her. Because now you have become a woman in her mind, and she can’t be happy with a weak man because she is the one who is supposed to be the weaker of the two. Now she ceases to have the womanly, tingly feel in that pussy when ever she sees you because the contrast has been eliminated. There is no longer that thing outside of herself that let’s her explore and know her soft and feminine nature, because you have opted to play the punk role and let her rule you. In order for her to truly know herself, she must have the rough, the rugged, the raw brotha in her presence to make her feel the way she wants to feel. So in essence you have to be a fucking jerk.
Don’t listen to these females that’s tellin you that what I’m sayin is bullshyt, these females say one thing but live life totally contrary to what they say they want. I wish I had a dolla for every female that told me my line of reasoning was ridiculous and I turn around and see she got a Nicca 3 times worse than I am, totally mentally and physically abusing her. This modern day industrialized society has bytches and Niccaz minds all twisted. A woman’s needs are purely biological and have been nurtured through thousands of years of evolution. It has always been a woman’s need to find a man who can protect her and her offspring. Before cell phones, and cable t.v, or our so called modern age. People lived in tribes that hunted and lived amongst the hazards of mother nature. A man had to be able to hunt, and defend his clan from predators and other tribes roaming the land that would seek to attack, steal and kill his people. A man had to be a warrior and hunter. And woman subconsciously seek to find warrior/hunters today. A woman’s body only wants the strongest genetics to go into making her brood, to ensure that her offspring will survive. This is why project females crave the thug mentality, they see the thug as a warrior/hunter that has the genetics to ensure that her offspring will survive. They see the thug as one who can defend her and her children if need be. Why don’t most woman gravitate towards the Harvard grad but they end up swooning over the Bad Boy who just got out of Jail? It’s simple biology. The female only wants the strongest genetics to ensure that her offspring will be resilient and survive. Her womanly instincts care nothing about G.P.A’s. Woman are hard wired to seek and find physically imposing warrior/hunters to mate with for protection of her and her children. She wants him so he can contribute his genetics into making her children strong in order to survive in a given environment. So basically they want a tough guy. So you gotta be tougher and more of a asshole than her. And I’m about to give you some ways to show her and let her know that she ain’t shyt and won’t be shyt until you get ready to make her into shyt, ya dig? I know this sounds harsh and like it’s abuse, but the ironic thing is that you’ll make her happier in the long run while being in Asshole mode rather than Nice guy mode. Just watch and see what I’m talkin about, the bigger an asshole you are the more she will kling to you and love you. The minute you go soft and Nice, she will lose interest and will dump you like a used tampon. I also must stress that I am not advocating PHYSICAL abuse of woman. This is a “Gorilla PIMP” free zone. Gorilla Pimp’n ain’t necessary to those with an airtight game. So let’s get started on viewing some of my favorite techniques.
1.Avoid letting them think they are special. Always imply that they can be replaced quickfast.
Have you ever heard of the phrase “Treat a queen like a whore and a whore like a queen.”? Well somewhere I heard an even better version of this truism a couple years back. It goes like this ” Treat a queen like a whore, but never let her forget she is a queen. Treat a whore like a queen but never let her forget she is still a whore.” This does two things, it allows you to be a mystery to her. Your behavior being so erratic and unpredictable will have her hooked to you. The act of treating a good woman like a piece of trash and a trashy woman like gold will intrigue both types of woman. But in order for this to work you have to never let these two types of woman forget what they still truly are. The trashy woman must know still down in her soul that she is still trash, but you must have the power to periodically pull her from the muck and wash her off and make her golden, but she must never forget that she is only golden because of you. The Queen must be dragged through the mud and brought down to earth in order to work your Mack magic. But she must always know deep down that she is still a queen and that you alone have the power to make her feel like trash whenever you so choose.
You must make them know and understand that they are only special because of you and without you they are nothing. You have to make it so that they will fear losing you and thusly lose any feeling of being special once you leave them or replace them. They must always notice how safe, secure and well off they are when you are around. Or the opposite is true. They must feel apprehension, pain and uncertainty when ever around you. The key is to just never allow them to figure you out. The more of a mystery you remain, the stronger your hold on them will be.
2.Avoid hanging with Niccaz that have more game than you.
This might sound like some punk shyt, but it’s just common sense. You can’t travel with too many Male Lions in a search for a Pride of Female Lionesses. If this happens you are in danger of having your Bid for power usurped and snatched away. Male Lions roam the plains of Africa in search of a group of female Lions to impregnate and to become the Ruler and Leader of that Pride. If one Lion finds a group of females but there is already a male present then they will fight to the death at times for ruler ship of that Pride. Only the strongest Lion gets the right to mate with all the females to carry on his stronger genetic material. You want to roll solo and seek the path of least resistance. To roam with a pack of Macks decreases your chances of ruler ship. And if your in this game, your gonna find out that there is no room for number 2. Nobody gives a fuck about who came in second place. Nobody wants to see Robin, muthafukkaz want to see Batman. Rollin with a couple of slick Niccaz could turn you into Robin unknowingly. But if you would have rolled by yourself and didn’t have other game spitters distracting your female prey, you would be Batman playa. So choose wisely the company you keep.
3.Don’t call them.
The main thing I always hear from females about what irritates them about a Nicca, is the fact that brothas is always on the phone callin and sweat’n a bytch. Females like conversation but they don’t like you to sweat them. When you do that you are tellin them that you are powerless and that the female is powerful. A female looks for and responds to the man who don’t call them at all. This flips the script and makes you the one with the power. This tells them several things about you if you don’t bother to call them back. It says that you don’t think they are that important enough to even bother callin back. It tells them that you must have many female options to choose from since you not so quick to jump on her tits and sweat her. This all translates into you a Nicca that other females obviously want, and you must have many females on your dick to just totally blow off and ignore a bytch like that. This will intrigue and excite the female more so than you callin her 2 or 3 times a day. When you bug a female it screams of desperation. She is thinking to herself “Nobody must want to even fuck with this Nicca, if he spends all his time callin me. He obviously has very little options.” This will turn a bytch off quick. All females want is a prize when it comes to a man. They want a Nicca that other woman want. If she suspects that you don’t have any bytches chase’n you then she really wont be interested. You need to be a status symbol to her, when other females see her Nicca they want other bytches to be envious. And you sitt’n at home all day callin her day in and day out tells her the contrary. So don’t bother callin em, let them call you. Or at least make em wait a couple days between phone calls. Trust me on this one, calm the fuck down and stay away from the phone.
4.Don’t answer your phone, or return calls when they leave messages on your voicmail. Make em wait.
But in the event a female does call you, you still need to exercise discretion. Avoid picking up the phone every time they call. This can be seen as desperation and lameness also. It screams to a female that you have too much time on your hands. It tells them that you are not busy and you have nothing going on. The act of always answering your phone lets them know that you are in fact waiting and anticipating their call and you deem their call important enough to always answer it. Wrong Move! You don’t want them to think that you are just sittin somewhere with your phone on your hip anticipating her call. This is weak, weak and more weak. You need to let them calls they throwin at you flip over to voicemail and get back with them later. This shows that you are out and about and you are obviously to busy to fuck with her. Now she thinking to herself: “What is he doing? Where is he at? Who is he with?” This adds clout and value to you.
And when a voicemail is left don’t return the call that day. You make her wait for your call for at least 24 hours. Once again you make it known that your a busy and wanted man and you have to divide your time up carefully among alot of females. She will see that you are wanted and needed by other females and once again this alone makes her want to possess you.
This is another move that shows how inconsiderate and how big of an asshole you are. Remember the whole idea is to just make them understand that the world don’t revolve around them. You trying to show that you don’t give a damn about any shyt they stress’n. It’s just a simple power play, you always want to make them wait for you. It should never be the other way around. This technique drives bytches crazy. If your being consistent with your Mack skillz, it will pay off dividends.
6.Don’t be too easy to find or accessible.
If they want you to come over they crib, tell em you busy. If they want a ride, tell em you can’t do it right now. Once again your tellin this Chick that you got other thangs to do and other people to see and she is not a priority. Her needs come second to your needs, she will respect you and salivate at the possibility of breaking you down in order to see if she can make her needs a paramount over yours. She is testing the waters to see how strong your Mack Hand is, that’s all. When they do all that whine’n and beggi’n and askin shyt they just seein how much they can get away with and also want to see if you have the balls to put your foot down.
7.If you are on the scene, disappear without sayin bye.
Here is another rude way of showin who is the boss. If you just so happen to be ovah a freaks crib, dip out without sayin bye. I usually do this if she has company and I’m not taking priority over her other guests. I usually just dip the fuck out and be about my way. I don’t fuck around with chicks callin me over to mingle with a bunch of otha Niccaz I don’t know. I don’t roll like that. So i’ll often dip on a bytch when she ain’t lookin and be on my way. You showin that you didn’t think enough of her to even say bye, and your also sayin to her that her place wasn’t worth your time. Later I’m gettin phone calls and messages from the freak askin me why I left. You always want to keep them guessing and wondering about you. Never let them figure you out. It’s the fact that they can’t comprehend you that makes them want to be in your world.
8.If seen ride’n around a project area where many females reside. always have a sharp lookin female in the passenger seat.
Make it a point to be seen with the flyest bytches you can get your hands on. Just a simple exercise in envy. I found that men are wanted more when a female knows that other females want or are being drawn to you. So use this to your advantage. Make it known that the ladies love your company.
9.Be clean and dress in a descent manner.
I know some dirty Niccaz that still have Mack Power and they get freaks every now and then. But I stop to wonder how much tighter their game might be if they just tried to wash their ass. Yes it is possible to be a Dirty Mack. I have seen it with my own eyes, but you don’t want to be that way do you? Please wash your ass.
I keep my dress real simple, nothing flashy. My priority is to avoid getting robbed so I don’t dress in gators and silks and all that kinds of shyt. I wear what I like to call ” Scrap wear”. It’s clothing that you can get yo scrap on in. I wear boots, gym shoes, jeans, sweats, hoodies and t-shirts. But I wash my ass on a regular basis, and a Nicca is always smellin good. It seems kind of boring but it fits my image. The shyt I wear is like a trademark. Females have grown accustomed to my Hooded sweat tops, jeans and silver chain. I have grown into that persona and It’s what they expect.
10.Don’t be so quick to give up your money, but in the event you feel like trick’n, do it in the company of many females. Hit at least one of them with a 20,50 or 100 dolla bill and tell her it’s for good behavior.
The short cut to Mack status lies in using Trick techniques to accelerate your game. Use Trick tactics wisely. I have already expounded upon the whole PIMP/TRICK illusions and paradigm for you playaz. Just remember that money is power and if you want certain people to know that you are indeed make’n moves and gett’n that money then you need to throw some money around. Like I said use this tactic wisely.
You ever train a dog to stay, sit and roll over? Well that’s what you’ll be doin with your money and these females. When you train a dog to do tricks you usually start off by giving them a food treat of some sort. Each time the dog complies with your command you give it a treat. Then you keep training the dog and you start to hold up on the treats and just give the dog praise, then you hit the dog with a treat again after you resume training when they keep complying to your commands. The treat is just to get the dogs attention from the jump and let it know it’s training time. Eventually you want to end up not giving the dog any treats at all and the dog will respond to your commands for one purpose and one purpose only and that is to please it’s master. The dog soon works for the praise of it’s master and not for a treat.
Money, freaks and trick’n is the same thing. You first throw out that money to get their attention and you should in most instances only throw out this money as a reward for good behavior. The more you reward her the more she will feel attached to you if you are taking care of all the Mack angles. Soon you will have to throw out no money in order to see her comply with your wishes and demands. Some females comply for different reasons. Some comply for fear of losing you and your money. If I ask a freak to go and get me 2 more freaks to video and she doesn’t deliver then she knows that the next time she asks me for something the chances are slim that I will deliver. So she complies with my request for fear of losing her money train. Some females do it because they love to make you happy and they just love to complete the task you have given them. Some females beg for missions to do in order to get next to you and to get your approval. Soon if you so choose you won’t have to wave any cash in front of these females, just the promise of a possible later payday is enough to keep them hanging on. Remember you don’t want to make money the sole reason a freak does anything for you. Money should only be used to kick the game off with a blast, then you should wean a freak from digg’n in your pockets. You should have them wanting to do thangs for you just because they feel the need and the want to. If you really doing this shyt in Mack fashion, it ain’t hard to get them to comply with your wishes. You want to have it so that there every thought should be about pleasing you and make’n your life as comfortable as possible.
Sometimes you have to floss and give out money with an audience present to get your game rollin. Give a chick a 20 dolla bill in front of her friends and make sure you tell her some shyt like “Great job” or “I appreciate your help, here’s a little somethin for your trouble.” Other females will see this and get curious and before you know it you’ll get calls from strange females you don’t know. Of course this scenario is more for those inclined to CyberPimp than just the average Nicca on the street lookin for ass. But this can still apply and be useful with a little bit of imagination.
11.If they have children always treat them with kindness and respect. Bring them candy or toys every now and then, or take them and there momma all out to eat.
I typically do this because, I often feel sorry for the kids that stay in the projects. I often try and show them kids as much love as possible when I’m out and about. I found that when I did this the females grabbed on to me tighter also. They can’t resist a man who shows interest in their kids. It’s a mothers natural instinct to show some favor to a man who values her children. I don’t deliberately use the kids to get in good with the females. I ain’t that dirty, I just have a natural need to ease these children’s pain and it just so happens that this action has many benefits in dealing with the females.
It also has its draw backs though. Many of these chicks will start to see you as baby daddy and will start to beat down your door whenever they need something for the kids. Instead of askin the real baby daddy, they feel more comfortable comin to you. That’s when I got to put back on my asshole mask and tell em to “Call baby Daddy for that mess, I’m busy.” It sounds harsh to clown them like that but often times these freaks find out that if they really want to get some money out of me all they have to do is say it is for the kids. So often they lie to me and try and get weed money from me and say it’s for the baby that needs food and medicine. So I had to start gettin real ill on these freaks. So be careful with this one, it can backfire real easily.
12.Tell them “No” alot.
This is point blank and to the point. Don’t be a yes man, tell them No, No, No. Once again your setting the stage for them to understand that you have the power, they don’t. A woman wants to be powerless in the face of a man. She doesn’t want to be in a man’s presence and feel like she is dominating a situation. She at least does not want this feeling in the presence of a man she wants to call her own. So tell them “No” when she asks for something and watch as her eyes light up and she begins to hold you in high esteem.
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